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When we are upset or wronged, one of the most dangerous things we can do is stuff down our resentment, anger, and hostility. This causes unforgiveness to grow and fester in our hearts. Also, it is an act of rebellion to willfully refuse to give up one’s resentment and right to get even. Unforgiveness doesn’t fit in the life of a Christian. Therefore, we must make a decision to let go of resentment and unforgiveness.

In this message, Dr. Stanley shares the consequences of resentment and hostility and explains how to deal with unforgiveness by:

- Treating it as a serious offence in the eyes of God
- Assuming full responsibility for an unforgiving spirit
- Confessing a wrong attitude to God
- Acknowledging it is a violation of the Word of God
- Asking God for forgiveness
- Asking God to enable us to forgive
- Praying for the other person
- Doing something for the other person
- Asking the other person for forgiveness if God requires it

When we deal with our unforgiveness, we will begin to see people through God’s eyes. Our attitudes will change, and we will be able to accept people as they are. Then, not only will we have strong, healthy bonds with others, but also a growing, loving relationship with our heavenly Father.

This sermon is part of the series Healing Damaged Emotions.